THE TREPIDATION OF VERBALIZING IN PUBLIC: WAYS TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING

The most scariest fact of the world is? People dread public speaking even more than death.

Everyone faces this situation many times, may be in school, college or on a professional level. You are not the only one who faced this in your life, everyone faces this. Few are lucky enough to overcome their trepidation, and many endeavors to elude that situation all the time.

There can be any of the reasons behind your trepidation, like:
May be you think you are fubby, skinny, bald, dark, or you are not so good looking or any other reasons which makes you feel inferior in front of others, and because of this you always worry, that public will only look and talk about your physical appearance and may not appreciate your effort.

It's also a fact that if someone encourage you and make you comfortable before your turn, you may not worry about your appearance. And may give your best shot without any hesitation.But this favorable situation is almost exceptional, generally people don't care about how you feel.

Keep in mind that:

• The public will forget faster than you, you may remember where you fumbled, shivered, but people don't have time to recall where you actually hesitated or stuttered. Live in that moment.
• Nobody cares who you are, they will not talk about your mistakes they have other works to do, so do what you need to do, don't get affected.

From above, you can overcome your fear, but if you follow the things mentioned below, you will gain confidence.

Your biggest trepidation is not about how you look, but it's about, what if you forget what you have to say. This is your biggest trepidation. You are not prepared before your turn, this should be your problem, and you must concentrate on preparation rather than thinking some bullshit.

Just follow these steps to overcome this situation:

•  You Should be fully prepared before your turn
• Check whether your content is sufficient or not.
• Mark key words, in case, if you forget anything in that moment you can cover up, by recalling the key words.
• Practice, practice, practice, this is what you have to do again and again in front of mirror before your turn.
• You should look confident, this will stop public to distract you.
• And the most important thing is, you are doing it for yourself and for your family, you have to bring smile on their face, so believe in yourself do it for them, even if you don't want for yourself.

You will succeed if you follow above steps, and this would be the end of your trepidation. BEST OF LUCK

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