HAVE BIG DREAMS? SHOULD TELL EVERYONE? PART-2

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After knowing that your own people have doubts about you and have full belief that you are just dreaming and it will be over when you woke up the next day. This can become a annoying thing for you, so try not to lose your confidence because it will help you in tackling this situation.

Now in that situation  you must work on two things:

• You have to convince yourself that you can pull of this situation too.
• Stop explaining them again and again because you have already done that, it would not give you any thing but tiredness.

It's obvious that you are not going to change your mind, now it's perfect time you should start working on your dreams, but quietly, without making them realise that you are still have that thought in your mind, with your regular daily schedule it will not work, you should bring some changes according to the situation. Plan out all the possible dimensions, make a strategy, start behaving like what you want to be.

This time you need to work harder and let your work realise them that you are really serious about your dreams. Remember one thing, no matter what happen you will not tell them because your every reason can change into an argument.

No one in this world has ever achieved anything without support of anyone, everyone needs support at some point of time, so its better you respect their decision and keep quiet until you don't have any visible results. The real world is a very cruel place no one can survive there without support.

Your family and friends must feel your passion and determination. Make them realise that you were always correct and honest of your words. This is the toughest thing to do because you don't know when you will get the positive results. This situation will evaluate your passion, patience, determination, tolerance level and most important thing consistency. Only consistency can help you to make them realise that you are not normal you are Extra-ordinary just like your Big dreams.

Now this process will give rise to two possibilities which is:

• Either they will realise that you were right and then everything can turn around for you.
• But if you lose the momentum you will also lose the consistency, and it can disappoint you big time and you will not be able to trust yourself again.

So you better prefer the first option by your consistent performance. Because you will regret whole life that you dreamed, but were not capable of achieving it.

For those who were about to announce their Big plans must understand one thing. You can only tell about your big dreams when you are prepared then you will have all reason to convince everyone otherwise you will face the same thing mentioned above. So when you are prepared say it with conviction. You will surely succeed. And the smile on your face would be Priceless.

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HAVE BIG DREAMS? SHOULD TELL EVERYONE? PART-1

Who ever have thought to do something big, had always a question in his mind.Should I tell everyone?

It totally depends on your personality, if you have a strong personality with a true convincing power, family and friends will agree with your thoughts and they will support you. But if you are a normal person or a useless person in the eyes of your family and friends, they will listen to you half-heartedly and surely be laughing from inside.They will not take you seriously, whatever you describe to them whether it is your future goals or current plan their reaction will be: are you mad?

You feel good when you reach a conclusion that this is the thing what I was searching for, therefore it is obvious that you want that the world should know what you have decided and it's perfectly normal.

If you have friends who support you it's a great thing. But what if your friends start ignoring, stop supporting and behave like a stranger after knowing the whole thing, actually, it's quite discouraging it may sadden you. This can change the equation between you and your friends they won't tell you but you can feel that. It is a time when no one is with you except yourself, this will make you angry and it can become a big reason for your distraction because you were not prepared for that.

So now, what to do? Everything has changed because you confronted your biggest liking to your loved ones.

Now it's time you should find the reason why that happened and not turned in your favor. The reason is they think you are not capable and this is not the end, your family will stop you following your dream and your fellows will demotivate you by saying you should try something else you are not meant to reach there.

After all this, it's time to find out who is the victim and who did the wrong?

Actually, you are the victim of your own deeds, but nobody is wrong. The reason is you have no convincing power, you cannot blame others to believe in you until you do not prove them by your actions. As it is said "action speaks louder than words" your action never spoke louder than your words.

I call it pressure cooker theory, what is it? You can cook food only at the pressure which is required. If you release the pressure or energy at the wrong time it would not give you expected results.

If you release energy at the wrong time you won't be able to utilize it, your timing is totally wrong, you never concentrated that energy in one direction. you wasted that one chance of your's to convince your family.

But few things can turn around everything for you if you have will to follow that, and you would be a happy person altogether. To know what it is, wait for the NEXT BLOG.


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