HAVE BIG DREAMS? SHOULD TELL EVERYONE? PART-1

Who ever have thought to do something big, had always a question in his mind.Should I tell everyone?

It totally depends on your personality, if you have a strong personality with a true convincing power, family and friends will agree with your thoughts and they will support you. But if you are a normal person or a useless person in the eyes of your family and friends, they will listen to you half-heartedly and surely be laughing from inside.They will not take you seriously, whatever you describe to them whether it is your future goals or current plan their reaction will be: are you mad?

You feel good when you reach a conclusion that this is the thing what I was searching for, therefore it is obvious that you want that the world should know what you have decided and it's perfectly normal.

If you have friends who support you it's a great thing. But what if your friends start ignoring, stop supporting and behave like a stranger after knowing the whole thing, actually, it's quite discouraging it may sadden you. This can change the equation between you and your friends they won't tell you but you can feel that. It is a time when no one is with you except yourself, this will make you angry and it can become a big reason for your distraction because you were not prepared for that.

So now, what to do? Everything has changed because you confronted your biggest liking to your loved ones.

Now it's time you should find the reason why that happened and not turned in your favor. The reason is they think you are not capable and this is not the end, your family will stop you following your dream and your fellows will demotivate you by saying you should try something else you are not meant to reach there.

After all this, it's time to find out who is the victim and who did the wrong?

Actually, you are the victim of your own deeds, but nobody is wrong. The reason is you have no convincing power, you cannot blame others to believe in you until you do not prove them by your actions. As it is said "action speaks louder than words" your action never spoke louder than your words.

I call it pressure cooker theory, what is it? You can cook food only at the pressure which is required. If you release the pressure or energy at the wrong time it would not give you expected results.

If you release energy at the wrong time you won't be able to utilize it, your timing is totally wrong, you never concentrated that energy in one direction. you wasted that one chance of your's to convince your family.

But few things can turn around everything for you if you have will to follow that, and you would be a happy person altogether. To know what it is, wait for the NEXT BLOG.


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