7 UNIQUE THINGS WHICH SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE FOLLOW

To become successful there is no as such ingredients prescribed to us, but generally people who are successful, are confident, proactive, hard working, opportunist etc. But it's not enough to be successful all the time.

There are 7 things which are unique, but found commonly in every successful person compared to normal people, and these things help them always to stay at the top of the world:

• Their vision and goals are cristal clear. They may change their method of achieving goals, but they will never doubt on themselves.

• Those who start working on their dreams in their early days of life tends to be more successful. But even if someone start late, above fact won't affect them if they truly believe in themselves and do not consider time or age an important factor.

• People who are humble, generous, and supportive are of the most successful people of the world, because they behave like a human and not like a robot, they  don't use people, they prefer to make others strong, sensible and mature like them.

•  They don't go too much on holidays. Many of us after achieving little become over confident. They think as they have achieved it, they can capitalise on this without much effort and lose the grip, they focus on enjoying more and start losing everything as time passes because somewhere everyone is working hard to replace us. So, until we don't have proof that holidays won't slow down our success rate, work everyday.

• They are stubborn. We know that no one can become successful overnight. It requires lot of efforts to become expert, and it may take many years to become expert in a particular field, So you must not think about giving up at an early stage, on not getting results. So try to be more stubborn and just focus on your goals. 

• Successful people prefer suggestions from everyone, they know that anyone's Idea can work as a key factor in the process of accomplishing their dreams. Therefore they always seek for the right ideas and right person.

• They know how to improvise and change according to the need of the time. To compete with the world, change is important, no one can depend on outdated ideas and methods, so it's better to become a person who can mold himself at any time according to need.

No one can become successful without love and support of  others, so rather thinking that I am the one who can achieve greatness by my own, is not a good thought.

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TRACE YOUR PAST AND UNLOCK HIDDEN SECRETS OF FUTURE

You spend a lot of time fantasizing about your future, because it feels good. But genuinely it totally depends on your past, it's your past which tells you whether you are going towards the same direction as you imagined or not. You are a positive person and what ever you have been through in your past, whether good times or bad times you'll always think the best for yourself.

But fantasizing is not ample to carve a bright future, your actions, your executions also plays a vital role in your journey. No matter how big your dream is, it won't come true until your action don't start complementing your thoughts.  

Your present is heading towards past, today will become yesterday and tomorrow will become present, so do what you have thought because with every passing second your future is more visible and clear than ever before, it doesn't matter what you think, your heart will tell you the truth whether your dream will turn into reality or not.

Steve Jobs also believe in the concept of life pattern. In one of his speech he said  "you cannot connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will some how connect in your future. You have to trust in something- your life, destiny, gut, karma".

So It's clear that by tracing past you can unlock the hidden secrets of future. So observe your life pattern and do what is important. If you succeed in tracing your life pattern you will achieve everything you've imagined.

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THE TREPIDATION OF VERBALIZING IN PUBLIC: WAYS TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING

The most scariest fact of the world is? People dread public speaking even more than death.

Everyone faces this situation many times, may be in school, college or on a professional level. You are not the only one who faced this in your life, everyone faces this. Few are lucky enough to overcome their trepidation, and many endeavors to elude that situation all the time.

There can be any of the reasons behind your trepidation, like:
May be you think you are fubby, skinny, bald, dark, or you are not so good looking or any other reasons which makes you feel inferior in front of others, and because of this you always worry, that public will only look and talk about your physical appearance and may not appreciate your effort.

It's also a fact that if someone encourage you and make you comfortable before your turn, you may not worry about your appearance. And may give your best shot without any hesitation.But this favorable situation is almost exceptional, generally people don't care about how you feel.

Keep in mind that:

• The public will forget faster than you, you may remember where you fumbled, shivered, but people don't have time to recall where you actually hesitated or stuttered. Live in that moment.
• Nobody cares who you are, they will not talk about your mistakes they have other works to do, so do what you need to do, don't get affected.

From above, you can overcome your fear, but if you follow the things mentioned below, you will gain confidence.

Your biggest trepidation is not about how you look, but it's about, what if you forget what you have to say. This is your biggest trepidation. You are not prepared before your turn, this should be your problem, and you must concentrate on preparation rather than thinking some bullshit.

Just follow these steps to overcome this situation:

•  You Should be fully prepared before your turn
• Check whether your content is sufficient or not.
• Mark key words, in case, if you forget anything in that moment you can cover up, by recalling the key words.
• Practice, practice, practice, this is what you have to do again and again in front of mirror before your turn.
• You should look confident, this will stop public to distract you.
• And the most important thing is, you are doing it for yourself and for your family, you have to bring smile on their face, so believe in yourself do it for them, even if you don't want for yourself.

You will succeed if you follow above steps, and this would be the end of your trepidation. BEST OF LUCK

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HOW TO MAKE ANYTHING INTERESTING WHICH YOU HATE THE MOST

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I cerebrate whatever you love, you will do it, no matter you prosper in that or not. But when it comes to something which you don't relish, everything suddenly becomes difficult and you endeavor to elude that work.

When you came to know that your colleague is more skillfulter than you in the work which you hate the most, it becomes more frustrating than it feels.

When you don't relish something you always find a way to evade doing those things, and in that process, your mind becomes more unresponsive because you give ordinant dictations to your mind to not to accept those particular work. when you do that you automatically loses the chance to do that work with conviction, because you focuses on evading those assignments, homeworks etc. And ultimately you lose the energy which you must have utilised in other work.

It depends upon two things:

• If it is your impuissance, then you will automatically hate that.
• If your fundamentals are not pellucid you will make  abundance of mistakes during the execution.

So What to do? How is it possible to make something fascinating which you hate the most.

 

Both the situation can be sorted by performing a simple  procedure:

As you know it's all about your mind and how you apply it, your physical vigor is not that paramount to resolve this matter. It's more of a noetic exercise. So it will take time to come into effect.

• First, stop cerebrating that you don't relish it, because you are putting your energy in something which is useless. Even if you don't relish you have to do it, so stop mentally convincing.
• Second, don't pretend that you suddenly commenced relishing it, because you don't relish it.
• After eschewing both the cerebrations, you should first relax your mind. your relaxed mind will work more efficiently.
• Now pick the most facile part of that work which you know that you can do it, and perform that work when you have ample time. It will avail you to apply felicitous efforts and you can reach to conclusion that why it is more arduous for you to perform.
• Now just concentrate on the work and do a deep analysis, cover all the dimensions and consult with the fellows, it will take lesser time to understand the issue.
• Concentrate on your impotency only. If you prosper in resolving  that issue, it will become a lot more facile to accept the fact that there are still some possiblity that you can do it with conviction.
• Conviction will help you to do hardwork and make you more efficient and can turn your abomination in to relishing.

So try until you don't prosper.

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AFRAID OF EXAM/TEST: SOLUTION TO AVOID FAILURE

Everyone is afraid of failing in exam/test because this is one of the most irritating feeling and the most uncomfortable part of our journey. When you enter into the examination room that weird pin-drop silence turn every positive energy into negative energy. You always think that why god has created exam/test to determine our capabilities, can't I just do anything else other than facing the exam?

Here exam/test is not just an exam/test, which a student faces, it's about all of us who prepares to perform at a specific point of time or during a specific period of time. This topic will cover all kind of tests on one scale.

For an athlete Olympics are his test whether he is best or not. He prepares for it for years.

For an employee the target given to him is also a test for him, whether it is achievable or not.

For me Exams are just a formality. You should not worry about this because what you learn before exam/test are what you can apply in exam/test, so if you are not fully prepared, you cannot utilise yourself and it will turn into failure.

You should be afraid of wasting time and not following your planned schedule rather than exam or test. Remember one thing if you are not making any mistakes during preparation, that will increase chances of happening it on the ultimate day of Execution.

The less you do homework or practice the more the chances of mistakes will arise automatically in the future, which is unavoidable because you never did it fully and you escaped those circumstances which may lead you to the mistake. You learn from mistakes and it helps us remembering the actual fact.

SAY TWO THINGS TO YOURSELF: 

I will practice till my last breath. Until I don't fully utilize my mind and energy.

I am ready to cry now while doing hard work rather than on the day of execution or result.

This two simple Ideologies will help you during preparation and bring more dedication towards your work.

Actually the thing is, every day is an exam/test where you have to manage everything without losing any time, you must consider each day an exam/test if you pass that you can also easily pass the formal exam/test.

When you fail daily, in managing schedule it's a sure thing that you will also fail on the ultimate day of performance, lack of preparation will lead you to nervousness and will make you feel insecure so you better become nervous will preparation rather than in the exam/test. So you better worry about today's performance because it will ultimately enhance your performance on the right time.

If you do not have interest in a particular part of your job this can create a lot of problems for you so I will discuss about: How to make anything interesting which you hate the most, in my next blog.

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SIGNIFICANCE OF BEING WITH RIGHT PERSON

You build connections since childhood till your professional life. But sometimes you ignore the fact that what kind of people are part of your group, whether they are actually desreve to be there? Generally you will choose a person of your type who matches your energy level, your feel who actually understand who you are and what you are.

There is nothing wrong to be with every kind of person. It will actually help you in all aspects. But when it comes to sincerity, commitment, and work ethic it's not good for you, basically it depends on what kind of plans you have in your life , if you are very focused person toward your life who wants to achieve big, who work hard every day to turn dreams into reality, then you must avoid people like- who are free from responsibility, who are party lovers and who do not have any goal, If you continued this bonding, it will bring many disadvantges. For Example, this bonding will bring frustration, anger toward your own decision because you never avoided those people and always participated in all activities, it will make you tired and even distracted. 

It's not about avoiding them, but your priorities must change and you should join those who have same seriousness towards their life.

A group of focused people brings synergy and a group of distracted people brings loss of time. They may be dear to you but you can't compromise with your commitments.

Parties can wait, holiday trips can wait, but your time will not wait it will run at it's own speed. You will lose everything because you have certain goals not everyone.

A group of highly motivated people brings new ideas new possibilities so start your day with those who are similar to you, it will bring the change you are waiting for. 

Just remember one thing people who cares for you will always support you, others won't understand this thing, so start your day alone or choose wise people's company and bring positivity to your life.

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HAVE BIG DREAMS? SHOULD TELL EVERYONE? PART-2

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After knowing that your own people have doubts about you and have full belief that you are just dreaming and it will be over when you woke up the next day. This can become a annoying thing for you, so try not to lose your confidence because it will help you in tackling this situation.

Now in that situation  you must work on two things:

• You have to convince yourself that you can pull of this situation too.
• Stop explaining them again and again because you have already done that, it would not give you any thing but tiredness.

It's obvious that you are not going to change your mind, now it's perfect time you should start working on your dreams, but quietly, without making them realise that you are still have that thought in your mind, with your regular daily schedule it will not work, you should bring some changes according to the situation. Plan out all the possible dimensions, make a strategy, start behaving like what you want to be.

This time you need to work harder and let your work realise them that you are really serious about your dreams. Remember one thing, no matter what happen you will not tell them because your every reason can change into an argument.

No one in this world has ever achieved anything without support of anyone, everyone needs support at some point of time, so its better you respect their decision and keep quiet until you don't have any visible results. The real world is a very cruel place no one can survive there without support.

Your family and friends must feel your passion and determination. Make them realise that you were always correct and honest of your words. This is the toughest thing to do because you don't know when you will get the positive results. This situation will evaluate your passion, patience, determination, tolerance level and most important thing consistency. Only consistency can help you to make them realise that you are not normal you are Extra-ordinary just like your Big dreams.

Now this process will give rise to two possibilities which is:

• Either they will realise that you were right and then everything can turn around for you.
• But if you lose the momentum you will also lose the consistency, and it can disappoint you big time and you will not be able to trust yourself again.

So you better prefer the first option by your consistent performance. Because you will regret whole life that you dreamed, but were not capable of achieving it.

For those who were about to announce their Big plans must understand one thing. You can only tell about your big dreams when you are prepared then you will have all reason to convince everyone otherwise you will face the same thing mentioned above. So when you are prepared say it with conviction. You will surely succeed. And the smile on your face would be Priceless.

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HAVE BIG DREAMS? SHOULD TELL EVERYONE? PART-1

Who ever have thought to do something big, had always a question in his mind.Should I tell everyone?

It totally depends on your personality, if you have a strong personality with a true convincing power, family and friends will agree with your thoughts and they will support you. But if you are a normal person or a useless person in the eyes of your family and friends, they will listen to you half-heartedly and surely be laughing from inside.They will not take you seriously, whatever you describe to them whether it is your future goals or current plan their reaction will be: are you mad?

You feel good when you reach a conclusion that this is the thing what I was searching for, therefore it is obvious that you want that the world should know what you have decided and it's perfectly normal.

If you have friends who support you it's a great thing. But what if your friends start ignoring, stop supporting and behave like a stranger after knowing the whole thing, actually, it's quite discouraging it may sadden you. This can change the equation between you and your friends they won't tell you but you can feel that. It is a time when no one is with you except yourself, this will make you angry and it can become a big reason for your distraction because you were not prepared for that.

So now, what to do? Everything has changed because you confronted your biggest liking to your loved ones.

Now it's time you should find the reason why that happened and not turned in your favor. The reason is they think you are not capable and this is not the end, your family will stop you following your dream and your fellows will demotivate you by saying you should try something else you are not meant to reach there.

After all this, it's time to find out who is the victim and who did the wrong?

Actually, you are the victim of your own deeds, but nobody is wrong. The reason is you have no convincing power, you cannot blame others to believe in you until you do not prove them by your actions. As it is said "action speaks louder than words" your action never spoke louder than your words.

I call it pressure cooker theory, what is it? You can cook food only at the pressure which is required. If you release the pressure or energy at the wrong time it would not give you expected results.

If you release energy at the wrong time you won't be able to utilize it, your timing is totally wrong, you never concentrated that energy in one direction. you wasted that one chance of your's to convince your family.

But few things can turn around everything for you if you have will to follow that, and you would be a happy person altogether. To know what it is, wait for the NEXT BLOG.


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WAYS TO CREATE AND FIND OPPORTUNITIES PART-1

Whoever we are, whatever we do, whether we are rich or poor, intelligent or not so intelligent. We always try to find ways to get best opportunities. But Wait! most important thing is that whether it is in our reach or not... before analysing that, you cannot assure yourself that we will succeed. So what to do?

First, decide what you want and whether you are capable of that thing or not, only then you can choose the best suitable option.

Example, for a student, scoring highest marks in exams and getting a scholarship can be an opportunity. But this is not an end of a story... what if that student is not good in studies, then what?  Is scoring highest marks in exams is possible?. The Answer is NO..... that means as of now he is not capable of achieving that place, and obviously there is also an element of competition which makes it more difficult for that student to emerge as best.

For an actor, good looks and good acting skills will become useless if he does not fulfill the criteria of the role for which he is auditioning.

From above it can conclude that until and unless we are not capable enough to pull it off, that can only be considered as a half chance, not a sure shot chance.To call it an opportunity it is important to check whether we fit in that criteria for which we are working? Until then don't think about achieving it. Because even if you got that opportunity, it won't last long.

So it is important to work on our skills, confidence, and way of presentation. Our capabilities and skill will decide how big an opportunity will be.

So before crying or feeling sad on losing few valuable opportunity. Decide whether you actually deserve it or not. If you don't deserve, then you must work harder from now onward, because you never know when the next big thing can come to your way. So start preparing for that.

In next blog, I will cover more aspects related to this topic, how to create an opportunity. So stay tuned.

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FAILURE DOESNOT SUBSIST IT'S A MYTH IN WHICH WE BELIEVE, MORE THAN IN OURSELVES

You Failed, these words are enough to discourage and demotivate you, no matter how vigorous you are. This word(failure) may make you feel, that you are not worthy enough and you've done something erroneous which is not acceptable according to others.

But there is a good news for you, the word "FAILURE" ACTUALLY DOESN'T SUBSIST in real life. I hope after reading this someone someday will erase this word from the dictionary. Actually, it may subsist in exam results or in any office performance sheet of an employee, but in real life, it can't be verbally expressed that he /she failed. There is a reason behind this, which can be expounded in one instance.

let's give a goal to a non-dancer to learn a dance form in such time which generally a human requires.But what if after that plausible time he/she still dances like a non-dancer?  can we verbalize that he/she failed! or he/she can't dance. The Answer is: we can't verbalize that.

Because of this reason: Every human is unique, born with one or more special ability or aptitude, every human need more or less time according to his/her vigor, only the god knows or that person knows what he/she can do with perfection.

It is possible that due to some reasons you are not doing what you want to do, may be because of any financial crises or family responsibility or due to any other restriction.

We live in a world where we are time-bound, we must consummate everything in given point of time, which is a good thing, but everyone cannot do everything in time, it's a fact that cannot ignored, this is the actual reason why our society verbally express we fail

In life you went through lot of stages, from birth you learn how to crawl and ambulate in your first 2 years, you peregrinate to school for fix period of time, then for higher studies you have another fixed time and continued till your professional, where again you must do everything in specified time which may not be possible for.

There is no software installed in you from inception of your life which can tell you what is your strength and what is your weakness, if you get a chance to do what you want, you will also be called a genius. 

Time is a most consequential factor in deciding whether you FAIL prosper or not. If a person performs an activity whole day which is his/her impotency by nature, he/she will not prosper, and this world will call him/her a failure, no matter how hard he/she is endeavoring, no matter how uncomfortable he/she is, while doing that job. But if the same person get a chance to do what he/she wants, the results will be different.

Therefore, no one deserves to be called a failure. Every child are not born to study and score good marks, some are born who are best in other things. If that child don't like studying and in future becomes a Medico, Engineer etc, chances of prospering are low compared to what he/she can do at it's best.

If Someone calls you a loser or doesn't revere you for what you are, because you are not good at anything, then don't worry, you are not doing what you should have done and even the other person doesn't know what you relish. So until you are doing what you don't like, keep searching for what you can do with perfection. And always keep a smile on your face because you are special.

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